212 Player Josh Tauss Commits to Air Force

August 18, 2017 by MJ

Congratulations Josh!!

Mental Toughness

August 1, 2017 by MJ

1. Always act as if you are in total control.

There’s a quote often credited to Ignatius: “Pray as if God will take care of all; act as if all is up to you.” (Cool quote.)

The same premise applies to luck. Many people feel luck has a lot to do with success or failure. If they succeed, luck favored them, and if they fail, luck was against them.

Most successful people do feel good luck played some role in their success. But they don’t wait for good luck or worry about bad luck. They act as if success or failure is totally within their control. If they succeed, they caused it. If they fail, they caused it.

By not wasting mental energy worrying about what might happen to you, you can put all your effort into making things happen. (And then, if you get lucky, hey, you’re even better off.)

You can’t control luck, but you can definitely control you.

2. Put aside things you have no ability to impact.

Mental strength is like muscle strength–no one has an unlimited supply. So why waste your power on things you can’t control?

For some people, it’s politics. For others, it’s family. For others, it’s global warming. Whatever it is, you care, and you want others to care.

Fine. Do what you can do: Vote. Lend a listening ear. Recycle, and reduce your carbon footprint. Do what you can do. Be your own change–but don’t try to make everyone else change.

(They won’t.)

3. See the past as valuable training and nothing more.

The past is valuable. Learn from your mistakes. Learn from the mistakes of others.

Then let it go.

Easier said than done? It depends on your perspective. When something bad happens to you, see it as an opportunity to learn something you didn’t know. When another person makes a mistake, don’t just learn from it–see it as an opportunity to be kind, forgiving, and understanding.

The past is just training; it doesn’t define you. Think about what went wrong but only in terms of how you will make sure that next time, you and the people around you will know how to make sure it goes right.

4. Celebrate the success of others.

Many people–I guarantee you know at least a few–see success as a zero-sum game: There’s only so much to go around. When someone else shines, they think that diminishes the light from their stars.

Resentment sucks up a massive amount of mental energy–energy better applied elsewhere.

When a friend does something awesome, that doesn’t preclude you from doing something awesome. In fact, where success is concerned, birds of a feather tend to flock together–so draw your successful friends even closer.

Don’t resent awesomeness. Create and celebrate awesomeness, wherever you find it, and in time you’ll find even more of it in yourself.

5. Never allow yourself to whine. (Or complain. Or criticize.)

Your words have power, especially over you. Whining about your problems always makes you feel worse, not better.

So if something is wrong, don’t waste time complaining. Put that mental energy into making the situation better. (Unless you want to whine about it forever, eventually you’ll have to make it better.)

So why waste time? Fix it now. Don’t talk about what’s wrong. Talk about how you’ll make things better, even if that conversation is only with yourself.

And do the same with your friends or colleagues. Don’t just serve as a shoulder they can cry on. Friends don’t let friends whine; friends help friends make their lives better.

6. Focus only on impressing yourself.

No one likes you for your clothes, your car, your possessions, your title, or your accomplishments. Those are all things. People may like your things–but that doesn’t mean they like you.

(Sure, superficially they might seem to like you, but what’s superficial is also insubstantial, and a relationship not based on substance is not a real relationship.)

Genuine relationships make you happier, and you’ll only form genuine relationships when you stop trying to impress and start trying to just be yourself.

And you’ll have a lot more mental energy to spend on the people who really do matter in your life.

7. Count your blessings.

Take a second every night before you turn out the light and, in that moment, quit worrying about what you don’t have. Quit worrying about what others have that you don’t.

Think about what you do have. You have a lot to be thankful for. Feels pretty good, doesn’t it?

Feeling better about yourself is the best way of all to recharge your mental batteries.

212 Player Bo Caldwell Commits to Utah

July 31, 2017 by MJ

Congratulations to 2018 LSM Bo Caldwell on his commitment to play for the Utes!

212 Player Brandon Dodd Commits to Air Force

July 29, 2017 by MJ

Congratulations to 2018 Attackman Brandon Dodd on his commitment to Air Force!

212 Wins 24th Championship

June 23, 2017 by MJ

212 Wins 24th Championship

The month of June was kind to the 212 Lacrosse program with the Girls’ and Boys’ programs posting a 19 win 8 loss record and 3 first place finishes. But, most importantly, the kids respected the game and played with tremendous class.

212 Select tournament teams play in honor of Mike’s North Carolina teammates whose families have endured hardship. 212 Lacrosse endeavors to support those in need, such as these families, through the donation of tournament fee proceeds.

“As always, a big thank you to the entire 212 Lacrosse community. The support the parents show myself and our staff is tremendous. I’d also like to thank Jensen Neff (Stanford), Kate Graham (UC Davis), Christian Pompoco (Westminster) and Carson Dutkanych (Albany) for an excellent weekend of coaching and the Vail Tournament staff for organizing a fun event for the kids.”

– Mike Acee

Seventeen, 212 Players Selected to Under Armour All-American Rosters

June 13, 2017 by MJ

Congratulations to 212 Lacrosse players Jake Taylor, Joe Kassal, Jack Thompson, Beau Pederson, Andrew Pederson, Dylan Bauer, Lauren Pederson, Haley Taylor, Tillie Mintz, Quentin Buchman, Hunter Binney, John Fitzhenry, Trey Ika, Bodi Sutherland, Brandon Dodd, Bo Caldwell, and Dante Orlando on their selection to the Under Armour Underclass tournament rosters.

The sport’s most prestigious underclass tournament will feature girls and boys teams from Baltimore, Long Island, Midwest, New England, New Jersey, Philadelphia, South, Southwest, Upstate New York, Washington, D.C., and West and consist of two divisions of players from the graduating classes of 2018-2021 competing in Towson, Maryland from June 29-July 2.